It is surrealistic that people think that you have to be at their disposal always. But you have caused this situation with so many favours that you have been doing.
Getting you hands dirt is something that you like if it is necessary. And it seems that today it will be so, because your job will be focused in someone special for you.
As you love your partner so much, you will let her do a lot of the things in which you have been thinking abou. Besides, you will be doing the best with this decision.